There are quiet a few theories about how to choose this card, but in my experience no choice is really necessary - the cards themselves show you who you are (if you're paying attention). And while you may tend to show up as one particular card most frequently, you may find yourself symbolized by a number of other courts, depending on the context of the reading. For example you may see yourself appear as the King of Swords in matters of work and "outside life," but then you may appear as the Queen of Pentacles when it comes to a reading about your family.
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My husband and one of my sisters both show up most often as the King of Wands even though they are water and air signs, respectively. Another sister (a Leo) is most commonly represented by the King of Swords, while my mother is the Queen of Cups (that one fits the mold being that she's a Cancer!). I even remember reading for a man who appeared in his own reading as the Queen of Wands. In all of these cases the significators were not preselected or decided upon, they were shown.
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Court cards represent our most salient traits and characteristics, so they don't always match up neatly with gender or astrology. And that is a good thing, as it allows much more fluidity in readings, and in the end reflects our diversity with far greater acuity.
I agree that one significator is to limiting to describe somebody. It is my opinion that if you use a significator it is best to leave it in the deck so the card has a change to play its part in the reading In that case I use a second deck to pick the signifcator from. Since I am a noob in astrology, I pick them purely based on intuition. :)
ReplyDeleteI agree with you about leaving them in the deck! I actually never use significators at all (not a fan) but often you start to see which card represents "you" over time, as they appear naturally in readings. It's always fun to see what appears for different people! I find it very limiting when people think that they have to claim the court card that corresponds to their sun sign, or gender - it just doesn't always work that way!
DeleteAlison Cross over at Tarot Thrones did some interesting posts on how to use significators. However, I still rarely do. As for seeing myself in the cards, my most common ones are the Queens of Swords and Wands, and the Page of Pentacles :)
ReplyDeleteNice! I rarely appear as Swords courts, though it has happened a few times. I find it really interesting to see how Tarot reflects back to us our predominant energies in readings, though like you I don't intentionally employ significators. I never would have pegged my sister for the King of Wands, though after the fact it makes quite a lot of sense! :-)
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